Deepening into Emotional Energy Management
Taking care of ourselves mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually is essential for optimal well-being, especially as we navigate difficult times.
When we become sick, unbalanced or reach a health crisis, we are forced to look at the entirety of our system. What works and what doesn’t. We are called to pay closer attention and take inventory of what is going on for us in our inner and outer worlds.
It is important that we don’t overlook the role that our emotions play in our overall health, well-being and relationships. When we don’t understand what’s going on internally, aka when we don’t understand our emotions – they often create fear, uncertainty and discomfort. As a result, we try to repress, deny or ignore them.
The rise of mental health challenges tells us that this does not work. Temporarily, sure. Long term, not so much.
Our emotions are just one part of many energetic bodies that make up our entire being. When we mismanage our emotions by ignoring, suppressing, or disregarding our internal state, we create an imbalance in the body. What we need instead is to deepen into emotional awareness and emotional acceptance, so that we can begin to practice emotional energy management.
Here are 5 ways to practice emotional and energetic self-care so that you can deepen into your emotional energy management:
Starting off your day with a fresh start and a clear mind. Morning pages is a simple yet powerful practice involving stream of consciousness writing, first thing each morning. Think: Brain dump. We often wake up in the morning and immediately the wheels start turning, we start thinking about all the things we have to do, begin checking our phone and rushing around the house. Morning pages allows us to pause and release so that we can transition into our day feeling calm, free and clear.
The beautiful thing is that there is no right or wrong way to do this practice, all you have to do is show up to the page and write 3 pages of whatever comes to mind. Do this each and every morning and you will find your own benefits along the way. Allow it to be an experiment.
Morning Pages is created by Julia Cameron [ The Artists Way ]
When we’re busy, it can be easy to forget about our energetic self-care. Are you a helper, healer, lightworker, mother, father, empath, caregiver, highly sensitive human? The more you support and give to others, the more nurturing you require.
What would it be like to let go of the need to be busy all the time? To let go of your milelong to-do list and hustle to do it all? What if instead you allowed yourself to be more intentional and purposeful in what you do, to be more mindful of what is happening right now, and experiencing life as it is unfolding in this moment?
If we want to live a life full of meaning, contribution, purpose and passion, we must become intentional about cultivating time for ourselves. Slowing down helps us create the needed space. It helps us let go of the hustle just a little bit so that we can release exhaustion, burn out, busyness, productivity and perfectionism as ways of measuring and proving our worth.
What in my life makes me feel busy?
What is stopping me from slowing down?
What beliefs do I have about slowing down?
What would be different if I allowed myself to slow down?
Earthing, or grounding, is a simple practice with HUGE benefits. All that is requires is standing barefoot on the earth. These days we are overly connected to our devices and under connected to nature. Connecting to the earth helps to balance out the electrical charge in our body that is often overstimulated by our connections to our devices and wifi signals. Nature heals.
DAILY ENERGY CHECK IN
Our energy levels fluctuate daily. Checking in with ourselves is a simple way to ensure we are attending to our own needs each and every day. One question I encourage all my client to ask themselves each day is: What do I really need right now? When we tend to our own needs, we deepen our levels of self-trust.
Morning Check In:
How much energy am I starting out with today?
Do I have enough energy for all the things I have packed into the day?
What tasks or things throughout my day require the majority of my energy?
How much time and energy is dedicated or set aside to focusing on my own health and well-being today?
Are there any changes I need to make to create more balance and more time for myself?
Being human is hard sometimes, and navigating this human experience takes all kinds of different support. Asking for help and allow ourselves to receive support can be one of those things that is easier said than done, but you don’t have to navigate your experiences alone. If you don’t have the support you need from those around you, working 1-1 with a therapist or wellness professional can help to deepen your self-understanding and provide individualized plans that serve you best.
Life is busy, so when things begin to get off track, remember to check in with yourself and give yourself permission to bring it back to the basics – food, water, sleep, and connection. Once we have a solid foundation we can begin to build from there.
Each of us have different things that speak to our souls, different things that we find nurturing and supportive. If you try one of these things, all of them, or none of them, my hope is that you find a self-care practice that works and feels best for you.
Meet the author
Hayley Yarish, Registered Counsellor & Certified Life Coach
Hayley is a Registered Counsellor and Certified Life Coach in British Columbia, Canada. She specializes in working with Highly Sensitive and Ambitious Women and those navigating life transitions. She is deeply passionate about all things mind, body and spiritual integration and is continuously inspired by the wisdom, power and resilience of the human spirit. Hayley believes that when we are aligned – mind, body and spirit, our energy field begins to open. As our energy field opens, we gain access to the wisdom within, allowing us to cultivate connections with our inner world, deepen into who we are, and reach greater states of fulfillment. Hayley’s work is focused on creating safe and sacred spaces for reflection, self-discovery, deep healing and radical transformation.